Marriage What is a Marriage?

What is a marriage i ask. So many people have different ides of what on is. My idea is a marriage is a team effort. It is not only good times but bad times to. it is a dance so to speak. You see we all grow at different speeds and when you get married you start the dance. one speeds up the other must change there tempo or you are all out of wack. The most part of marriages can adjust there tempos to get back to the same beat. What if you cant get the same tempo what do you do. Life is a dance. i remember a country song from back in the day called that life is a dance you learn as you go and it is so true. Marriage is so much more than the big events you know holidays, birthdays ,having babies ,buying a home and so on. It is those everyday things. The look you give one another that says so much with out saying a word. Or that touch that makes your heart melt. The call that you get threw out the day that is to just check on you. the call,because the other one just cant go more than a few hours with out knowing you are okay. A marriage is when you can sit down and say hey I'm struggling with this and they say hey don't worry we will get threw it it will all be okay. A marriage is not going 8 plus hours and not talking to each other. a marriage is not sitting there quietly when the other calls with bad news. A marriage is so much more. A marriage is not about sex it is so much more. You know that you have a great marriage when if you were no longer able to have an intimate relationship that you would be okay because you have a COMPANIONSHIP.