How Crazy is your home?

Okay okay i know all homes get crazy from now and then !Mine seems like it has been crazy for the past 5 days.It seems like nothing cant stay clean why is that? I wish i had the magic answer.It all started friday the day my dh came home i got up mopped cleaned up and the house was not perfect but presentable.Well by saturday it looked like some one had went threw and ransacked our home.what happened from friday to sat?I did get the laundry room painted but that was it!!!!! It was the only clean room in the house.Sunday is a church day and we help to run a bus at church so we are at church from 9 to 9 so we come in i run to the grocrey store come in and cook. I look around and shake my head i just couldnt belive my house! Well my dh has to leave monday morn so we well he got his self all packed and we go to bed and i hate he has to leave in the morn and see the house looking so bad!!! It was bad i was so ashamed.So i get up monday and get the main rooms clean i dont touch our bedrooms i said we will do them tuesday.Ha ha tuesday i laid around i took 2 naps i was so give out i just couldnt get with it!!!! so here i was feeling guilty if my dh came home i would die he had to leave looking at the mess and i sure didnt want him to come home to a mess.So the bedrooms are a mess so wensday i get up and we get them cleaned well my oldest did hers the younger one is still working on hers.I will probaly have to go in there and do it my self and it makes me so mad!!!!I clean it up and then bam they dont care.I have tried to just let it set there and It just gets worse.And looks bad on my part i just dont know what to do.i have tried spanking taking things away to grounding her.she is almost 8 she can clean her room.Are things perfect no there still some things that need to be done a good scrub but at least it is good to they eye just dont open the cabniets i so neeed to go threw them.It seems as if i clean but it still doesnt look clean why is that?Any one got any tips.